A funny for all you Facebook fanatics!

December 17, 2008 @ 11:26 am | Filed under: It's funny!

Although I’ve tried on several occasions I just cannot seem to tap into the social networking systems with any degree of satisfaction or success. They just don’t do it for me and - as much as I like to stay plugged into modern technology and communication venues - I have to say that my time is better served in more traditional methods.

Between MySpace, ShoutLife, Twitter, EC, Facebook, I feel kind of like my mom, who is aso struggling with this myriad of modern mayhem and has dubbed them all MyFace.

But for those of you social networking gurus who also enjoy great classic literature, here’s something just for you! Go here to read in full…

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Happy Birthday, Kevin!

October 8, 2008 @ 4:19 am | Filed under: Family

Your siblings are the only people in the world who know what it’s like to have been brought up the way you were.”

– Betsy Cohen

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On October 8, 1972, my parents presented me with what was, and still is, the best gift they could have given me.

After four-and-a-half years as an only (though amazingly unspoiled:) child, I became a big sister.

“Saucy” became my new name (a cross between Staci and Sissy) and Kevin became my constant.

I hear tales of sibling rivalry, fierce competition, and untold jealousy and, I’m sorry, I just can’t even imagine.

Maybe it’s the fact that there was one of each gender, or maybe it’s the age difference, but with just a few exceptions Kevin and I have remained in each other’s corner.

He was my constant.

He humored me by taking on the voice of Ken (and Ken’s buddies) whenever I had a whim to play Barbies.

He understood that Linda and Susan were real (well, in MY mind, at least) and made room for them in the backseat of the car on the way to church.

In turn,he somehow very easily convinced me to play GI Joe and Evil Knievel with him. And I’ve sat in on more than one Lego-building marathan, let me tell you.

He was my constant.

When I was younger, he was the one I’d hurry home from school to share tales of my day with.

When he started to kindergarten, I was the big fifth grader who’d routinely peek into his classroom just to make sure he was all right.

I graduated from high school and promptly left him at home to experience the “only child” treatment. But even that separation didn’t sever our connection.

A few years later, when I had two small children and was staying nights alone, Kevin would show up at my place on Friday nights. After tucking Nate and Jordan into bed, I’d order pizza and then my baby brother and I would watch a movie, eat pizza, and bake (I did the baking, we both did the eating) cookies.

Looking back now, I see that, though we were in very different stages of life, it was Kevin that helped me through some difficult times. He was my friend, kept me company, and loved me no matter what.

He was my constant.

And more than that, he IS my contant.

He’s grown to be a man that I admire on so many different levels. A loving husband, devoted father, and man of integrity, I’m proud to call him one of the men in my life.

While I’ll always be the eldest (though it’s looking more and more like I won’t be the grayest!) he’s now my contemporary.

Life is funny that way, isn’t it? You grow up with someone, seeing spaghetti plastered on their face, hearing their wails of anguish when you steal (or hide or break) a toy, witnessing countless skinned knees and swollen mosquito bites, finding comfort in the soft sound of their breathing next to you on road trips.

Then you wake up one day and you’re both adults. How in the world does that happen, I ask you?

He is my constant, the gift given to me 36 years ago today. A gift that, although I loved him to pieces way back then, I value even more today.

Like branches on a tree we grow in different directions yet our roots remain as one. Each of our lives will always be a special part of the other.

Happy  birthday, Kevin!

Love, Saucy

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Christmas in September!

September 27, 2008 @ 4:25 pm | Filed under: Books

A SCRAPBOOK OF CHRISTMAS FIRSTS

(Leafwood Publishers, October 2008)

A wonderful new gift book, A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts, is available in October for Christmas giving. Today, I’ve invited the six coauthors to share their unique story of how they came together to publish this exciting book full of stories, recipes, tips for simplifying the holidays and so much more (click on bookcover to see the trailer!).

First, let me introduce Cathy Messecar, Leslie Wilson, Brenda Nixon, Trish Berg, Terra Hangen and Karen Robbins. Thank you for being here today, ladies.

Karen: Thank you for the invitation.

You are from three different areas of the country—Texas, California, and Ohio. How did you all meet?

Terra: We all six joined The Writers View, an online group for professional Christian writers. Trish and Brenda met in person in 2004 for lunch, I understand, and on 9/18/04, after reading a post Brenda sent to TWV, I sent an email to Brenda, asking if she would like to join with me and walk alongside each other, as a Barnabas group. Brenda said yes that same day, and suggested Trish too. Very quickly Cathy, Leslie and Karen joined in and our stalwart band of six was formed. Living in California, I was so happy to find 5 Barnabas writers in other states so we could bring together a wealth of different viewpoints and expertise

Brenda: Actually, We haven’t met. We’re all great colleagues and friends via the internet. Four years ago Terra and I formed a dyad to support each other as Christians who write in the secular markets. Along came Trish, Cathy, Karen, and Leslie (not necessarily in that order) and we formed a close knit bond of support, creative energy, and professional accountability.

Karen: I met Trish through an online forum called The Writers View and she invited me to join the group.

Trish: Although we belong to the same Yahoo writing group, we met one by one online. Eventually, the six of us decided that since we all write as Christians for a secular market through magazine articles and newspaper columns, we could support and encourage one another.

Leslie: Though we met virtually through The Writers View, I have been blessed to give and get hugs from Trish (at a MOPS conference), Cathy (in the area on business) and Karen (in town for a writers’ conference). I can’t wait to meet Terra and Brenda face-to-face, though I feel as though I already know them!

How did you come up with the idea to do a book together?

Brenda: The book is Cathy’s brainchild. She mentioned the concept of telling stories of events that happened for the first time at Christmas and sharing holiday historical tidbits and recipes and each said, “If you need any help, let me know.” That offer morphed into each of us equally contributing and co-authoring A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts.

Trish: Yep, Cathy came up with the idea and the title, and asked us if we wanted to join her on this project. Of course, we said Yes!

Terra: Cathy mentioned the idea for a Christmas book to the group, and someone (I think it was Leslie) suggested that maybe our group could all write the book together. Cathy agreed to lead the way on the project. The earliest email I have on this is from 9/7/05, which shows that this has been a three year collaboration from idea to publication.

Karen: (Chuckling) Terra is a librarian and keeps our historical records by saving our e-mails.

Leslie: Actually, Terra, I wrote that comment (in a group e-mail) kind of tongue-in-cheek. Cathy, the ultra-sweet person she is, took my joking at face value and here we are. However, I believe God prompted the passion and ideas we all bring to the project and that He will do mighty things as a result of our collaboration!

Why did you decide on a Christmas theme?

Brenda: It was Cathy’s concept to write a book centering on Christmas.

Cathy: For several years, I’d been thinking about Christmas as a threshold to introduce Jesus to folks who aren’t familiar with him, and I love a simpler Christmas with the emphasis on family, friends and doing for others. I knew of some families who had experienced “firsts” at Christmas—reunions, losses, special surprises—and I wanted to collect those stories.

Terra: Cathy’s idea immediately resonated with me because Christmas books are “a way past watchful dragons,” as C. S. Lewis wrote. Many people won’t buy a book about being a Christian, but will buy a holiday and family fun book, thus the “past watchful dragons.” People who want to grow in their faith, and people who have no faith but celebrate Christmas will buy our book and hopefully be led to put the focus back on Christ for the holiday, and for their lives.

Leslie: Though Cathy birthed the idea, the rest of us quickly hopped on board. Not only is Christmas special to me—especially now that I have a family of my own—but also that particular holiday cries out to be simplified, to return to the meaningful aspects of celebration, and to lose some of the hype and commercialism.

Tell me a little about what is in A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts? What is your favorite part?

Cathy: I like that you can read one chapter in about 15 minutes and, with all the different suggestions, it feels like Christmas Eve. Makes you want to set up the nativity! Many of the suggestions for family activities can be adapted for any family get-together.

Karen: There are heartwarming stories about things that happened for the first time at Christmas. For instance, one of my stories is about the first Christmas with our adopted children. And the book is pretty. When I first saw the colorful pages and drawings, I fell in love with the illustrator’s work.

Brenda: I don’t have a favorite part – I love it all!

Terra: I like the way the parts are woven into a seamless whole, like a patchwork quilt, that is stronger and more beautiful than the parts.

Trish: It’s like everything you ever wanted to know about Christmas, all the best tips and recipes, and neat stories all wrapped up in this perfect little package.

Leslie: I love reading the special stories, hints, recipes—whatever—and imagining the precious family time that precipitated each moment. Plus, the book is gorgeous, beautifully printed, truly something to be proud of. And we are.

I’ve heard that the book is really a nice gift book; can you tell me a little about the format?

Cathy: Yes, it’s a hardbound book, full color interior. The layout makes it easy to read. It has a definite scrapbooky look on the interior. Different logos identify sections, such as an oilcloth-look Christmas stocking appears beside the “Stocking Stuffer Tradition” (help for connecting family members), and the “Cookie Canister” recipes are on a recipe card, and the back ground of “A Gift For You” is a gift box with bow. It’s a classy gift that they can be placed on a coffee table or in a guest bedroom during the holiday season.

Brenda: I like to describe it as a Starbuck’s sorta gift book. It’s high quality, crisp, and practical.

With six different personalities and areas of ministry, how did you manage to put this all together and still remain friends?

Karen: We pray a lot for each other and it helps that none of us have an over-inflated ego.

Cathy: There were no squabbles. Surely, we had differing opinions, but we knew that any of us could suggest an idea for this book and that each idea would get fair reviews from others. We actually voted on some aspects—everyone in favor say, “Aye.” If you’ve ever watched women at a Dutch treat luncheon when they divide up a meal ticket, it can be intense as they split the ticket down to the penny. As the project came together, I was in awe of my gracious coauthors, unselfish women who respect each other.
For some decisions, we did a round robin—things like book title and chapter titles and what categories to put into the book. Then, as compiler, I’d send out a list of needs to The Word Quilters, that’s what we call ourselves. For instance in a section we call “Peppermints for Little Ones” (hints for children’s activities), I’d put out a call, and the WQs sent in their hints, and then I put them into appropriate chapters.

Brenda: (Smiling) Are we still friends? Seriously, we each have our own platform, ministry, and family life, and those interests kept this project in perspective – it was important but not the only thing on our plates. No one was so enmeshed in this project that she campaigned for her own way. We never had a bitter disagreement or insistence to be “right.”

Terra: We are each other’s biggest cheerleaders.We offer support and ideas for our separate writing projects and for personal prayer requests. I love these ladies, and I have only met one of them in person. So far, Karen is the only one who has met each of us, and one day we hope to meet in person, in a circle of friendship and love.

Trish: I think we are all very flexible and forgiving. We do have a variety of personalities here, but God has worked amazing things through our little group.

Leslie: Though I have seven non-fiction projects in various stages of completion, I could not be more thankful that this is the one to reach publication first. I am truly blessed to have worked with these women, learned from them, watched as they’ve poured heart and soul into crafting a product that will impact lives for the Lord.

Where can my readers get a copy of SOCF?

Cathy: The coauthors will all have a supply, plus our publisher, Leafwood Publishers, will have plenty of copies and discounts for buying five or more. Or they can be ordered at most online stores or by your local bookstore.

Karen: And anyone who leaves a comment here can be entered in a drawing for a free book and a gift basket worth $200! For a list of its contents, check our blog, A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts. And while you’re there, leave another comment and increase your chances of winning!

Tell me more about your blog.

Karen: We started our blog in July and it is accumulating a wealth of information about Christmas. Each of us posts one day a week following the theme for that week. Watch for new recipes, tips, ways to simplify, stories, etc., similar to what is in our book.

Leslie: Ooh, ooh, let me answer this one. I’m probably the newest to blogging among the group, but I LOVE it. I’ve enjoyed posting and receiving comments back from readers. What an amazing adventure having an online voice can be! This blog will focus on a different theme each week—anything from tips to avoid overeating during the holidays to how to give a guest room special touches—and expand on the material in the book. I think readers will get to know the authors’ individual personalities and connect on a more personal level. Plus, they get that many more ideas, information, inspiration (!) at no additional cost.

WQs: As an added bonus for inviting us to your blog, we’d like to pass along this Christmas tidbit to you and your readers:


Enjoy a blessed Christmas this year! And thanks for inviting us to share our book, A Scrapbook of Christmas Firsts, with you.

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He said, she said.

September 24, 2008 @ 4:55 pm | Filed under: he said she said

Ever since Mike received word from his doctor that he needed to change his diet and incorporate more exercise, he’s been joining me on my morning runs.

This conversation took place a few blocks from our house.

MIKE: This is kinda fun, huh? Working out together?

ME: Yeah, it is. Makes it much more fun for me!

MIKE: I guess it helps that we enjoy spending time together.

Me: Yes. (pause) You know you’re my rock, don’t you?

MIKE: Really? I’m your rock?

ME: Yep. You and Jesus.

Minutes later, we round another corner and Mike takes the ‘lane’ next to the curb, right as a car races past me, close enough that I truly felt a bit of a ‘breeze.’

ME: Wow. You sure aren’t looking out for my safety, are you?

MIKE: (without breaking his stride) I was letting Jesus take care of that one.

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Throwdown - Wilder style.

September 20, 2008 @ 4:35 pm | Filed under: Family, Pure Sunshine

It’s no secret that Mike and I both like to cook.

Our favorite weekend eating place is our very own kitchen. That’s generally how we unwind from the week and get our weekend off to a relaxing start; meet in the kitchen and work side-by-side to prepare our Friday night dinners in.

Last night we decided to shake things up a bit. Let our competitive spirits come out and play for a bit.

We did the Wilder version of Throwdown with Bobby Flay.

Our challenge: to take our choice of fish and prepare an entre and a side.

Mike chose halibut and created a fabulous southwestern-style halibut filet with an unbelievably delicious pineapple/orange relish to go on top. He paired this with grilled corn-on-the-cob and it was…amazing! Of course, I’m a spicy girl who loves all things tangy and HOT! And this southwest dish provided lots of BOTH!

I chose salmon and let it soak in kosher salt and a heavy pepper marinade before cooking. With it, I made a smashed new potato dish that had english peas, pearl onions, and lemon zest.

The two dishes, though vastly different, came together so nicely in our kitchen. The aroma was amazing, and the end result - SO good!

We’ve decided to make this a monthly event. We’ll keep you posted on our next ‘challenge!’

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Need faith?

August 28, 2008 @ 5:15 pm | Filed under: 5 Minutes for Mom, The Solid Rock

I posted here today.

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Loving more than just the idea…

August 26, 2008 @ 5:49 pm | Filed under: It's a Girl Thing, Pure Sunshine, Soul Food

Madie

Madie on Thunder

 

Bailey on Cowboy

“The true way to render ourselves happy is to love our work and find in it our pleasure.” - Francoise de Motteville

They say that when you love what you do, it’s not really work. At least it doesn’t feel like work. Instead there is a deep satisfaction that comes from diving head first into our passions, overlooking the hours of hard work, the occasional “dirty” job, and the huge learning curves we sometimes have to navigate.

I began to think about this several weeks ago when Madie, age 8, and - a few weeks later, Bailey, age 10, attended horse camp. Both girls have loved horses…well, since forever. They chose books about horses. They like t-shirts with horses printed on them. They played “horses” while other little girls played Barbies.

They really, really claimed to love horses.

What sets these two apart from many other kids their age who also make the same claim is that they have now proven that they truly DO love horses.  While other kids love the idea of horses, these two love the horses.

They’ve proven it.

They have learned to feed the horses. (Who knew horses like peppermints?) They’ve tirelessly brushed the manes and rubbed a cool down after a ride. And while the other kids at horse camp enjoyed an hour of free play after lunch, Madie and Bailey both elected to remain behind and muck the stalls.

They really love horses.

Not just the idea. They love the reality.

As I think about my life and the things that I am passionate about, I can’t help but think about this horse camp. I think as long as I have these pictures handy, they may always serve as a reminder to me to only carefully pursue the things that are worth all the hard work to bring to reality.

I don’t want to merely love the idea of something.

I want to really, really love that something.

 

 

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The Windmill Farms.

July 31, 2008 @ 8:17 pm | Filed under: Family, Travel

We left on vacation late yesterday afternoon. But before beginning TRUE vacation, Mike has sales calls to make in West Texas and in New Mexico. So I am tagging along for the ride, armed with books and magazines to keep me occupied while he does all the workerly stuff.

Today we visited two windmill farms where he had meetings lined up. I have to say that this was almost like a field trip for me. Totally interesting. These white mills are visible for miles and - once you’re on the farm itself, they stretch for as far as the eye can see.

The towers stand up to 160 feet tall and each of the three blades are up to EIGHTY feet long! The towers - though they look like skinny trunks in the picture and from a distance - actually are anywhere from 8 feet in diameter all the way up to 12 feet.

Wind energy is definitely the wave of the future. But this future is still quite a long way off. The US ranks second in wind energy, second only to Germany. But even so, wind AND solar energy combined only make up about 1% of the energy on our country’s grid. And wind alone only makes up about 1/2 of 1%.

Still - it’s pretty cool to look at these beautiful (they really ARE beautiful) windmills that line the West Texas ridges and know what they are capable of producing.

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Game #9

July 30, 2008 @ 10:11 pm | Filed under: Family, Summer at the ballpark

Pops took Carter to the game on Tuesday night. I’m still not sure who was more excited - the Pops or the Grandson! From what I hear, they enjoyed hot dogs, ice cream, and hanging out with Deuce!

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Onesoles!

July 25, 2008 @ 9:41 am | Filed under: It's a Girl Thing

Onesoles

Onesoles

Cute covers!

Cute covers!

 When I was in Kemah a few weeks ago, I did a bit of shopping in the coolest little shop.

I found these great shoes (which I am now wearing on an almost daily basis!) called OneSoles. What you do is this. You pick out the sole you want (Mine is a black wedge) and each pair of soles comes with a standard cover. (Usually either black or tan.) Then you can buy all of these cute little covers to change the look of your shoes!

So cool!

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